Beyond Bathroom Blues

S3E109. The IBS Conversation No Man Wants To Have (But Every Man Needs To)

CharlieJeane Cooke Season 3 Episode 109

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There's a conversation most men with IBS never have.

Not with their boss. Not with their teammates. Not with the people they work alongside every day.

Because when you're a man and your gut is falling apart, the last thing you want to do is talk about it. You manage it. You hide it. You lie about it. You become an expert at making excuses and nobody ever knows the real reason.

I know this because I lived it for ten years.

Twenty-three years in the British Army. Reached the rank of Warrant Officer Class 1 — Regimental Sergeant Major. The man responsible for the discipline, standards and welfare of every soldier in the regiment.

And I spent a decade quietly terrified of my own gut.

Mapping toilets before I committed to being anywhere. Sitting in high-level briefings with senior officers, back straight, face neutral, while my gut was in full revolt — calculating how fast I could get out of that chair without anyone noticing.

I never told a single person.

Not because I didn't want to. Because I didn't know how.

In this episode I'm giving you exactly what I wish someone had given me — the actual words. What to say to your boss. What to say to your teammates. What to say to the people you work closely with every day. Real scripts. Real conversations. No fluff, no waffle, just straight talk from a man who's been there.

Because hiding it doesn't make you stronger. It just makes you lonelier.

And you were never built for lonely.

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